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Sunday, March 29, 2020

Observations-On Churches Supporting a Rescinding of the Quarantine by Easter


The response to the posting on my page that mentioned the Evangelical Churches that fell in line with the president on pushing the timeline for the sheltering in place and quarantines around the country so that Easter services  can be held was interesting. Most talked about their own churches and how their churches did not meet on Sundays, they dutifully sheltered in place and attended services online. One person talked about the importance of the social aspect of their church community, another boasted about how awesome their online services were. They spoke with pride about how their churches were able to overcome the challenge and made them able to meet online.

The thing that stood out to me is that there is a defensiveness in their responses. They seem to disavow the practices of the churches mentioned in the posting. The argument was along the line of:  that's not us, we're not that kind of people, we good people who would not do that. That's all fine and good except that, and I am not going to argue whether you are a good Christian or a bad Christian. The tone is distinctly different from the way people talked about Muslims after 9/11.  when most of America blamed Muslims, all Muslims. There was no differentiation at that time, there are no good Muslims, it was said, time and again. There were no differentiations between them, there are no shades of grey. Most sane people did not buy into the hysteria, in fact President George W. Bush very clearly differentiated between the extremist fundamentalist and the rest of Islam. Now that the shoe is on the other foot, many of the people are taking the easy way out by talking about the nuances and shades of grey between Christians. Believe it or not, when there is no separation in people’s minds. People will think in terms of monolithic block called Christians.  That is the Christians baggage, that's your burden to take with you, the good comes with the bad period. Just like Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, etc. have to live with the burden of shouldering the malfeasance of their black sheep. Realistically, I understand the differences between the fundamentalist Evangelicals sects versus other sects of  Christians. Yes it is insane, but that is the way it is. Deal with it.

The other thing I noticed is that people are personalizing the church’s behavior, or more accurately, their personal church’s behavior. Narrowing down the discussion down to their own churches, as a small segment of the overall religion. “We don't do that, we are different, we are better”. As we are talking about this particular situation, your first reaction is defending your little personal church? I find it interesting that no one thought about what this action was going to do to congregations. Most of congregation are older member, the chances of the virus spreading amongst that group of people is great and because there's so many older people, those folks may not survive any potential outbreak in those gatherings. There wasn’t even a “thoughts and prayers” on the comments. Christian charity and empathy were not mentioned.

I look upon one’s moral philosophy, or morality as something that is up to the individual. Moral philosophy is something personal and intangible which is created through my life, through my parents moral teachings, through my own experiences in life, through my own readings, through my exposures to others, and even through whatever religion I was exposed to. I personally put those beliefs through a cycle of questioning, critical thinking, and rigorous testing every time there is a situation that's will test my beliefs. I weigh the facts compared to my experience and I make my decision. If I decide that my personal moral philosophy is wrong after I've gone through my process, then I will adjust my personal moral philosophy. I am not saying that everyone should do as I do. That would make me a hypocrite.

As I look at those people who are in those congregations, I wonder what they think about the church leadership's intent on insisting that they gather on Easter because that decision may very well kill someone. I wonder personal philosophy lines up with what their leaders are telling them. If they are not aligned, I hope that they are courageous enough to walk away because freedom of religion means you can walk away from what they had chosen as their congregation. Many people have in recent days. The real problem is if they are aligned with their leaders, then I wonder about these people’s grasp on reality, on whether they understand that they could very well be killing their friends, neighbors, and family. This is how the Branch Davidian this is how the Jonestown massacre happened: people who have align the personal philosophy to that of their leaders unthinkingly and without question, because they followed that cult of personality.

Saturday, March 28, 2020

Birthday 2020 Thoughts


Once again, my friends you have surprise me with your outpouring of well wishes. Every year I unabashedly look forward to this outpouring of friendship because it gives me an excuse to recall those faces and names of friends who have reached out allows me to replay our times together.

There is a  great mix of people that appear on my timeline on Facebook and elsewhere: from my professional life, from my volleyball coaching life, from my Gradual School life, from my undergraduate school life, from my high school life, and even some from  my grade school life. We shall leave the time period unspecified for the protection of the innocent. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your friendship means so much to me, it gives me strength and hope; it also gives me a chance to revisit memories created at another time and another place, when we were all younger, more idealistic, and much more innocent. For some of us of course, it meant that we had more hair that was of our natural colors, while for others it meant that they had more hair.

A friend’s Facebook posts stated that this particular birthday has got to be one of the most memorable birthdays because of the circumstances. I had to think about it and realized that he was correct and incorrect all at the same time. It was memorable because of the circumstances of which we were living. But each marking of our sojourn through space and time is memorable because of friends who care enough in these troubled times to reach out through social media to give us that little ego boosting touch of humanity. It gives us that unexpected spark, that extra burst of life in our daily routine.

My birthday ended in the most 2020 way. I had a Webex meeting with the people that I first met on the campus of University of Illinois, at Allen Hall. We were all freshmen together and we have remained in touch 40 years later. Meeting on Webex was unique, we should all be quite familiar with the environs presented by the virtual meeting, but some were better at the technology than others. We were all able to call in, some of us managed to not lock ourselves out of our laptops.

We raised many toasts, we talked of our lives and things. We all managed to stay awake beyond the dreaded 9 PM snooze attack, even though some of us were struggling; and we spoke as if forty years had not elapsed. Those of the things I will remember forever.

Peace My friends and Be Well